What are his
turn-offs on a date?
Where there can be many things, and can vary from man to
man, here are the most common ones that men found to be a turn-off.
The first being if she talked too much. Men would politely
bear with it, but on the inside they knew they weren’t going for a second date.
Many men found a date who smokes a turn off. If you’re going
to smoke, do it after the third date, when you’ve given him a chance to know
you better.
The last pet peeve men found was someone with an attitude.
This can come out when she talks and what she talks about. Perhaps she was too
negative, or came off as judgemental or snobbish.
How can a woman cheat-proof a relationship?
Check and see if there has been cheating in the past, or in
other relationships, this is perhaps the biggest factor to be concerned about.
Other than that, don’t neglect spending time together regularly as a couple and
don’t neglect each other’s emotional needs.
Why do men try to fix things when I just want them to listen?
It’s just the nature of men. Men feel as if she is asking
him for advice when she speaks. They feel that it’s their job as a man to fix
problems for the ones they love. On top of which they feel challenged by the
concern, and want to defeat any problem that could come their way.
Along with, men don’t relate to expressing themselves and
connecting with other people like women do. As a result, most men don’t
understand the desire to speak because they want a connection or want to be
heard.
Why won’t men stop and ask for directions?
Perhaps you’ve noticed that men can get
really competitive, this is due to testosterone. Men feel challenged in getting
to their location and when help is offered it only makes them feel incompetent
and as if their abilities are being challenged. Getting lost can also make them
angry, which will just result in them thinking less and becoming more
aggressive in defeating any challenge.
Do you
really think about sex as much as those magazines say you do?
For most men, no. But for those who do
it’s because the culture that we live in today is bombarded with sexual images,
after all sex sells right. It’s on TV, billboards, on the way to work, and
other areas we can’t help but see. Along with, because men are sexually stimulated
visually, even a co-worker who dresses in a short skirt can be what triggers his
sex drive.
If guys
don’t really talk with each other when they’re together, how do men value their
friendships?
Not all people bond through talking and
communication. There are many ways people connect with each other. Being
through; spending time with each other, giving gifts, doing things for one
another, touching, supporting, and encouraging words spoken. Men will usually
bond over just spending time with each other. Even though guys may never talk
about anything deep, the memories and time spent together is what makes their
friendships meaningful.
Why do
men ogle at women?
Most of the time it starts of by seeing
their beauty. For a man there’s a lot about the female body that is beautiful.
Starting with their feet, to their legs, to their butt, up to their chest,
there is a lot to be mesmerized by. Sometimes guys can then be aroused by what
they see and then start starring in a sexual manner. At that point that’s why
they ogle.
Why are
men so uncommunicative?
It’s just their nature. Men will try to
solve their emotional or mental problems by themselves. For them, it’s a puzzle
that they want to accomplish. They don’t believe in the value of communicating
with others, or understand that someone else may have their solution. Only as a
last resort will they involve others to try and get their advice.
Why do
men hate shopping?
Men are very goal orientated, they don’t enjoy browsing. When they have
something they care about, such as cars or sports, they will plot out in their
minds their next move, a plan of what they want accomplished. They will then go
and purchase their next part, to accomplish that stage of the plan. Browsing at
all the other choices is done in their minds before they go out to purchase
something.
With women, they enjoy looking at all the options as part of their
shopping experience. Browsing is done in reality where colors can be matched,
and comparisons can be seen, and not in their minds. Men will just find this
frustrating.
These are just some of the questions women have about men. Hopefully
these answers have helped you connect and understand men better. Along with
which improve your relationships, and help you get along with men better.
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